When your sister is dating a loser
What to do if your sister or daughter is dating a loser?
User Name Remember Me? Password Register FAQ Members List Calendar Search Today's Posts Mark Forums Read. July 15th, I've been experiencing extreme problems with my 24 year old sister, lately. First off, she still lives at home with us, second she has aways had a history of dating complete losers and freaks She has changed so when your sister is dating a loser in the past.
Now she's got this new guy, she has kept her relationship with him a secret, because she knows that if she dares to bring him home we'll disapprove. While this is not much of a surprise. Her new boyfriend is a piercing guy who works at a tattoo shop and went to the lowest when your sister is dating a loser high school in probably all of Florida She used to be cool, ya know.
Now she's all into metal music and she dresses like a dirt ball, curses a lot and has turned into a liar. Her new self is disgusting. I can't even stand being around her. I look forward to 3: She thinks she's the most beautiful girl in the world will come right out and say it but she constantly depends and craves others to tell her that she's beautiful. My mom told me that's why she dates these trash balls. She's a college dropout and works as a CNA for now.
She really is a smart girl, 3. I know she could get any guy she wants to, because she has every guy in town practically drooling over her but she's just attracted to the skanky dirt balls I can't stand it anymore. But even he was crazy emotionally. Any advice on how to not care? I wish I could just go back to the age where I didn't understand or care to understand about her boyfriends. Now I'm 15, and I see my sister going down the tubes more and more. I'm just praying to God that she doesn't come home with a tattoo She does not like to be told what to do I when your sister is dating a loser want to not care.
Thanks, I appreciate it! Rocketfreak View Public Profile Find all posts by Rocketfreak. I don't have any words of wisdom, the only thing I can think of is you can learn from her mistakes. I don't think you can NOT care. Has she been evaluated for depression? Can you suggest to your parents that they pay for a little bit of therapy? My college roommate was like that. She was drop dead gorgeous and Miss Perfect Score on the SAT. Yet she only attracted losers who let her support them and their habits and even sometimes physically abused her.
I never understood it. She was worth so much more than that. About the tattoo - there are so many worse things she can come home with KayKay View Public Profile Find all posts by KayKay. My sister is awesome, she really is A couple of these guys EVER expect her to date She's my sis n I gotta try my best to get her out of this freak show Maybe it's just a stage she's going through. I'm a straight-laced mom in my late 40's. People who know me now would be surprised to talk to people who knew me in college.
Honestly, I know you want what's best for your sister, but it's not really up to you to parent her. That's your parents' job. I think some well placed building up "You are so pretty I especially like your eyes" and "I'm worried about college - how did you do so well? July 16th, Originally Posted by KayKay. LucyVanPelt View Public Profile Find all posts by LucyVanPelt. She's yrs older than you Additionally, are you whole, half, or step sibs - that can affect things toos.
My OS, who is 48 yr old still has problems I'm 2 yr younger. Two years later DM had gave birth to twins- OS went from being the center of attention to the OS of "the twins". July 17th, Despite her poor taste I know she wouldn't marry someone the whole family dislikes. Whatever you do, don't lay that dare on the table. She may go ahead and marry him just to get when your sister is dating a loser at you and your parents for not online dating pretoria free him.
Don't make her chose between your family and him. They may have a strategy for dealing with him and you need to be working with them and not against them. Do they hate him as much as you do? July 18th, Knot2loud View Public Profile Find all posts by Knot2loud. Switch to Hybrid Mode. Switch to Threaded Mode. BB code is On. All times are GMT The time now is Contact Us - The Friends and Family Forum - Archive - Top.
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